Boston Extended Family Photographer: Tips for an Amazing Photography Session

As a Chinese, family is so centric to our culture—especially the bonds we share with our grandparents. I've photographed many extended family sessions, and the moments captured across multiple generations are always deeply special.


Here are some tips for you to create an amazing extended family photography session.


Before the Session

I've found it invaluable to work with a family coordinator—one point person who helps manage logistics. This person can collaborate with me on outfit coordination, location scouting, and gathering everyone's expectations and preferences. I typically share styling guidelines with the coordinator, who then works with family members to settle on a cohesive color scheme. When everyone's outfits complement each other, the final images have a much more polished, unified look.

Extended family wearing coordinated pink and blue outfits poses together outdoors for professional portraits.

During the Session


Please arrive on time! With larger groups, delays multiply quickly. Plan extra time for travel and last-minute adjustments so you're not starting the session stressed.


I like to create a fun, relaxed environment where families can truly enjoy their session. I typically start with the full group shot while everyone's energy is high and outfits are still pristine. Interact naturally with each other. The best photos come from genuine connection, not stiff poses. Hold hands, share a laugh, tell a quick story—whatever helps you relate to each other authentically.


After the group photos, we move into smaller groupings. I prioritize arrangements with younger children first, since their attention spans are short and we want to capture their lively moments, most authentic expressions while they're still engaged. I know that chaos with the kids would happen, so please embrace the chaos with young children. Kids will be kids. Don't stress if they're wiggly or silly—often those unscripted moments create the most memorable images. Take breaks if needed and keep the mood light.


At the end, please be patient with the process. Extended family sessions take longer than individual family shoots. There will be waiting between groupings. Bring patience and a positive attitude.

A family wearing coordinated outfits of pink floral dresses and cowboy attire poses together in a grassy field at sunset.
Family enjoys playful moment together on grassy hill during golden sunset in park.

Extended Family Photography Practical Tips


Bring touch-up essentials. Pack things like hair ties, a brush, lip balm, and blotting papers for quick refreshes between groupings.

Have snacks and water on hand. Especially important for children and older family members. Keep everyone comfortable and energized throughout.

Silence phones. Ask everyone to turn off notifications before the session starts. Nothing disrupts flow like multiple phones buzzing during a group shot.

Plan something afterward. Consider going out for a meal or gathering at someone's home after the session. It gives everyone something to look forward to and turns the photo session into a full family event.

A group sits together by a tranquil lake during golden hour as sunlight filters through trees in the background.
Boston family photographer captures grandparents and toddler exploring pond at golden hour in Brookline MA
A tender moment between family members sharing affection and smiles in a series of candid photos.